Monday, 20 January 2014

 
 
Women or Men -Who should change??
 
 
 
                                                        Before I write something I would like to say something on this topic. First of all I would like to have an open discussion with all views which you feel from this article when you finished with reading the article. I would like to take a position not to lean on any gender and if you feel I am going little feministic ,sorry I couldn't help my genes are responsible for this.Last not least, I will try to not to hurt any one feelings by this and if it does happened I am really sorry for this. The main inspiration behind the article is may be some  films where I got influenced or may be some  of the situations I faced or it can be anything what my heart really want to speak out to the world.
 
                                 I have no idea where to start and how it would take me to the end. As a human tendency we always need something new on the news ,and as always when an incident occurs it may be discussed for few days and later on it get disappeared.do you think is it a good thing??As I said its all about the human nature. Whenever I go through the newspaper I always find the first pages may be always caught by some politicians or something on cricket. And more specific if there is any news on issues which is related to some women or it may be some rape case our eyes always go through there. I am not saying that you don't read such news, but I would like to say read the news with heart and find some ideas in your mind which will help to avoid such news on tomorrow newspaper. Don't stop at "thinking" of ideas but share with other people took at least a single step, which may eventually  to have lot of hands to climb more steps on the way.
 
                                    I saw one video where  someone making speech on Delhi rape incident.According to him it was that girl's mistake that she went outside with a boy on an unusual time(sorry night time in India is   unusual time for girls according to him).I am a person who lived India and also in foreign country. But when I consider the country where I am living currently I don't find there is good time or bad time for any one to out of the home. Every one is fearless to go outside at anytime and come back to home. No idea why this difference? you can say this because of the culture..bla bla..But I would like say even Indian women like me also feel free to move around anywhere at any time. I think the problem is with attitude of people, when a girl comes late to home people are ready to make any kind of stories for that . Every one want to indulge into others matter rather that what is happening in their own home. I know this will be something always discussed ,but for me its still a question why the discussion matter is not yet have closing section??Always it pops up when an incident occurs,and later on it fades away and again come to the scene when other incident occurs...come on friends please lets have a open discussion on this  "why women in India is less secure than other countries"??
 


To my friend....



To have a friend who really with you in all circumstances , who tells you it's ok dear ,when you say sorry ..who gives u lovable hug after scolding u, who takes you for a long shopping and even happy if you don't buy anything , to hear all what u say even on busy times, the person who forgives for all the mistakes you have done, the one who take care of you like no one in the world can do best than that...Yeah i am lucky to have a friend like that, but i am missing her a lot.. its none other than my mom...missing my mom sooo much..... :(
 



Thursday, 2 January 2014

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Happy new year to all my lovable friends and family....So how was you new year???Can we share some of your celebration experience...What you think..????Waiting for your reply as comments....